Well, its been a long time since I have blogged. I don’t know if anyone is still reading. Heck, I don’t know if many people WERE reading. But, maybe, someone is still out there.
My life has changed again. For the better. One of the biggest reasons that I haven’t blogged in awhile is that I am now working full time. I am back to doing what I love, after having to step away from it for awhile. You see – just about a year ago – my life was falling apart. I was in a cycle of alcoholism that threatened every aspect of my life. All the balls that I was trying to juggle started to come tumbling down on top of me. I quit my job. Abruptly. I walked away.
Since then, I have been on a journey of self-discovery. I would like to say that things started to get better after I quit my job. They didn’t – in fact, they got much worse. I don’t know if my drinking worsened because it was just going that way, or because I had less responsibilities. Either way, it didn’t get better, it got worse. Well, let me clarify. The frequency of my drinking dropped dramatically. I attempted to get sober. But, my time sober was always limited to at weeks. I never made it more than 3 weeks at a time. And, the severity of my drinking increased. I didn’t drink as often, but when I did drink – it was BAD. There’s just no other way to say it. Just plain bad.
Something changed in April. I had found this wonderful network of sober blogs a few months prior to that, but something in my head changed. I couldn’t tell you how, or why, or what, but it was different. I was different. I suddenly found the strength to keep going – to not cave to the power of alcohol when I would have in the past. I put one foot in front of the other, and I took it one day at a time. In fact, at the beginning, I took it one hour at a time. Hours added up and so did days. Days turned into weeks and weeks turned into (gasp) months. Holy shit…I have been sober for MONTHS.
Its absolutely unbelievable what sobriety has done for me. For so long during my drinking, I remember thinking “I just want my life back.” What life that was…I’m not sure. But I wanted a life that was different that what I was experiencing. I wanted to LIVE again. Problem was, when I was drinking, I was trapped in a cycle of focusing all of my energy on drinking and I didn’t have anything left over for life.
Slowly but surely, things began to change. I am not going to list all of the things that have gotten better since I have been sober – you read all about them in lots of blogs. But I will say this – my life isn’t boring anymore. That’s because I have a life, and I am living it. I have good days and bad days. I have emotions all over the board at times. I have gone through periods where I wanted to drink, but I didn’t.
What has sobriety given me? Its given me a life – one that I am blessed to have but I never thought was possible. I couldn’t have done it without all of you.
Life is anything but boring.